First thing is that you need to give her the space she asked for, continue being a friend, but don't push things. 9 times out of 10 when a person goes from ending a relationship right into a new one, it fails.

Okay, so generally, Taurus and Capricorn are great matches because they are both Earth signs. Compatibility uses similarities to determine how easy it is to be together which is why they say signs of the same element go together best. It's the same for the Sun, the Moon, Venus, Mars, etc. The most important ones to look at are Moon, Venus, Mercury, and to some extent Mars. Composite and synastry charts are more in depth than just comparing the signs, but you would need all her info to look at those.

Here are Cafe Astrology's descriptions:

"How You Relate to a Partner with Venus in Sagittarius: Your Venus signs are in opposite signs of the zodiac, but you share some similarities. Both of you are lovers of freedom in your relationships, and neither of you will turn down the chance for a stimulating conversation. Although there isn't always a "meeting of minds" between you two, there definitely will be some passionate discussions. Both you and your partner are somewhat restless, neither lasting long in a relationship that is confining or stuffy. Your partner tends to be more passionate than you in terms of beliefs and visions, sometimes to the point of expecting his or her partner to adopt the same belief systems, but you share a common love of fun and humor in love.

Unless there are strong supporting aspects in synastry, the relationship may be broken impulsively. Both of you benefit from a partner who grounds you and reminds you of the long term. You may not find these qualities in each other. Your partner values honesty from a lover, while you value mental exchanges, period. Restlessness in partnership is something you both share, and it's best that you try to channel that energy into shared activities, such as traveling, instead of finding holes in your relationship. Remembering that opposites often do attract, this relationship is certainly workable if neither of you clings to your ways self-righteously. Learning from each other, and trying to strike a balance, will pay off. Together, you can easily become inspired.

Even though the way each of you reacts and responds to your environment on an emotional level is different, there is something oh so familiar about each other. Each of you is security-minded. You want to feel secure and safe in your personal relationships, and you may give up excitement for stability if you had to make a choice! Both of you are very domestic and need a strong, secure home base in order to be happy. The sharing of food, nurturing of children, and creating a home together would be very satisfying for the two of you. Cancer has deep attachments to family and to all things "familiar". Taurus, too, is resistant to changes in domestic or personal life, preferring to stay with what has already been established rather than seeking novelty. Dependability and safety in a relationship are important to both of you, and you can find these things in each other.

Of the two of you, Cancer is more emotional, sensitive, and moody, while Taurus is more steady, practical, and even-tempered. Taurus gives Cancer a reassuring sense of security and is like the Rock of Gibraltar for Cancer during times of emotional stress and turmoil. Cancer may wish, however, that Taurus was less impassive at times."

Again Mercury in Taurus and Mercury in Capricorn, both Earth signs, so this is a compatible communication type. Both are slower and not impulsive communicators, you both probably process information and share it in the same manner.

Funny, this comes from comparing your Venus to her Mars:

"Your love signs are inconjunct, or in signs that are inconjunct to each other. This combination is similar to the semi-sextile (Beige) combination, but more insistent and binding. The chemistry is either present and powerful or not there at all. It's more likely to be present but not felt until some later date when circumstances call it out! Sometimes this points to an on-again, off-again relationship. Often enough, one of you (or both) were "on the rebound" when you started your relationship. Why? Because you are an odd combination of people who don't really understand each other's needs in love. You make an unlikely couple in many ways, but if you do get thrown into each other's arms--whether it's by unusual circumstances or due to other, more direct combinations of planets and points--you could easily stick it out for the long haul. Plenty of adjustments are required in order to make this relationship work, but if you are willing to make them, more power to you. The viability of this combination depends very much on your individual characters. If you value peace and harmony, you probably should look elsewhere! If the idea of peace and harmony makes you think "how dull!", this budding, complex, and fascinating relationship may be just right for you!'

Hi Aaron!
I am a Cappy sun...it is the only earth in my chart, as I am most influenced by my waters...
still, from all my Cappy girl firiends and myself, I thknk you are in for a real treat.
Cappy's are not one for games, so what you are seeing with her is what you will get.
It is our nature to go slow but steady...just like our fellow earth/Taurus....
you being moon in Cancer you are also a great judge of character, which she clearly has...
(we pride ourselves on personal character and integrity) we are very loyal and balanced as a whole.
Something Cancers seek...loyal/trustworthy/secure.
We make devoted friends. Again, something Cancer and Taurus both have.
It is also natural to find compatibility with people opposite with your moon (sun sign opposite moon sign)
And I have had very deep emotional connections with Cancer moons myself.
2-one was platonic/mother figure...
the other a sensual lover....
Other than that, I attract Cancer Rising...

You also have added attraction from your opposing venuses.... gem/sag...another plus...
venus from what I understand is what you find attractive in a lover...

mars is your way of responding to them/bringing them to you...
your mars is aquarius...so you path might be more intellectual, airy, less-methodical way...
perhaps? but your sun and moon may affect that and add more grounded approach...
she has mars Cap? So she would approach you in a more traditional way if she sees you 2 have potential.
I would think she would want you to court her in a very traditional way...
holding doors open, flowers, etc...old-fashioned romantic...which I have no doubt that you can bring...(:

worth mentioning is cancer is rules by the moon so it's influence is dramatically increased.
another reason a cappy girl is a good connection for you.

you are undoubtly picky with your virgo rising (cancer has to increase that highly-selective also)
so if she has captivated you to this degree, that is not a short term/passing phase. I think you know that already though.

With you gemini and her libra I can imagine you communicate well...and can get deep into conversation without realizing the time has passed.

I think you have something there. It is just my oppinion.

I know my deepest/hottest connection is a Cancer sun/virgo moon/ taurus mars and virgo venus...
many of the same elements, applied to us in very good ways...sex very hot....connection instant and growing...
our seperation has other reasons behind it/beyond our control...another story...

As for you guys and synastry, just remember all of our influences with planets/houses andsuch only show our natural dispositions,
we still have to factor in free-will/ choice....

I say trust your gut, run with it...and enjoy it every sexy/ playful/sensual/deep-discovery/ enlightening step of the way....

Mark Twain something to the affect:
It is not what we did in 20 years that we will regret, but what we did NOT do...

*hugs*
~One~