Making the First Move

topic posted Wed, June 11, 2008 - 3:27 PM by  Katya
okay... i need all you bull's feedback please....
both girls and guys perspective on this....

When initiating the first move.. do you (taurus) like to tackle in for the kiss, or be tackled??

Responses would be much appreciated.
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Katya
Providence
  • I want to be tackled. Then I can release the Whammy.

    *grins*
    • I've been hooked ever since a cute redhaired girl came up to me at the playground in kindergarten and kissed me on the forehead.

      Taurus can be sometimes slow in making the first move, because many times they don't know if you really like them and don't want to mess things up till they know for sure.

      When I meet a girl, and I see that there is chemistry going on, often I will kiss her within the first 5 minutes of meeting her. Scorpio rising :D

      But, if a girl moves in and gives me a real kiss, then she is in very big trouble, because I know without a doubt that "its on". After she initiates I take over, moving over to her cheek, then kissing up and down along the side of her neck in a sensuous way, then back to her cheek, to the earlobes, and up along her ears and behind them, running my fingertips through her hair at the same time. Then..... hehe

      So, umm, yeah, first move is fine if you are ready to be eaten alive.
      • oh yes ive been readyy... just nervous... like i know he likes me... but i wasnt sure if he was on the same page as i was on the whole kissing thing... because when we first started talking it was all fine and dandy but then he didnt want to start a relationship and just wanted to have fun being single soo i respected that but we stopped talking alogether we didnt even remain friends... but since we have mutual friends... hes back in my life... and ive noticed certain little things that point out that the feelings are still there. Your responses really help... you guys are all pointing to the same answer... "just fucking do it already"... gotchaaaa lol
  • Unsu...
     
    If the girl and I have chemistry, she should get close (i.e. face to face close) and say/do something suggestive (understated movements). Can take it from there. I like the eaten alive bit.
    • Well, I don't *actually* eat them...more like lick them all over...bite a little.

      *grins*

      I'm beginning to suspect that taurus sun/scorpio rising is a very naughty combo.
      • Heheee, that;s funny, cuz that sounds just like me. (a tau sun sco rising 2), but i dont mind initiating at times either, im always pretty confident they like me back, so i dont worry bout that much. But id say im more used 2 bein tackled.
  • I instinctively make the first move, only because I am a very impatient Taurus....
    But then again I do love to be pursued, tackled and brought to my knees...hehehe
    • I get a feel for the grounds, intuition plays a great role. Physical attraction is a big factor, but if the vibes are good... I will make myself noticed... If my tease /bait works I make him linger and when I can't stand it any more, scorpio rising will throw in that delicous sting. I can get pretty greedy!

      then I figure the rest out. If the guy is a dud as a person then it is time to keep moving!

      Marie-Pierre
  • I won't say I never make the first move because there's been some times where that wasn't the case but for the most part I'm like a deer in headlights with someone I like. Always weighing the what-if's (usually negatively) and need that extra kick in the right direction. I'm the kind of person who is quiet, but if nervous arounda girl I like get myself into the situation where i talk too much and the best way to shut me up is kiss me before I say something stupid. Or, if there if our faces are under a foot away with lots of eye contact and the situation is right then I don't consider making that the first move becuase usually animal magnetism pushes things the rest of the way but I need to be put into that situation, I rarely get to the point of making the situation happen.

    Being tackled though, forced into a wrestling match, tickle war, grabbed and shoved onto a dance floor, asked to give a massage, whatever is a great way to put us in the position where we're more open to that kiss and unable to back out. Flat out kissing us may not necessarily be what we mean by making the first move so if you're not comfortable doing that, just get him in close with lots of physical contact, lock eyes and if he still doesn't do anything than I don't know what to say.
  • In a lot of ways, I am very progressive. In matters of the heart, though, I am old-fashioned, and a soft touch. I like the anticipation of the first kiss so much that I will wait a very long time. Once the initial contact has been made and the level of intimacy has been established, I will occasionally be the tackler, so long as I am still being tackled with great frequency.
    Awwh. I love lovin', especially lovin' that's made to last. There is a certain luxury in not rushing in.
    • i always used to make the first move, but not anymore.... i let the guy do it, and it's way better, so i like to be tackled for sure. It's usually more unpredictable that way, especially if i were 'tackled' into a kiss while we were walking somewhere, or just as we get out of the car or something. something more spontaneous than on the couch watching a movie, cause then you know it's coming in only a matter of time.

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