how do aries men work?!

topic posted Wed, September 19, 2007 - 3:29 PM by  April
iam going through this hot-cold relationship with one right now and i don't know how to take it one day we are sparkin off eachother the next its like dead waves...anyone gotta clue?
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  • Re: how do aries men work?!

    Thu, September 20, 2007 - 9:37 AM
    They live in the moment - just avoid them when they're in a foul mood because they'll take it out on you, usually. The good news is they don't hold grudges in case you have a fight, and they do bounce back from their bad moods by the next day, usually.
    The bad news - they won't understand why you're mad at them the next time you see them after they acted like a complete pain in the ass. They wipe the slate clean, while we Tauruses keep score.
    The hot-and-cold thing seems typical, though. I've dated a lot of Aries men and have always had a lot of Aries friends of both genders and they just seem to work that way. Just don't take it personally - they certainly don't see it that way. Good luck.
    • Re: how do aries men work?!

      Thu, September 20, 2007 - 12:30 PM
      thank you very much i have a few aries friends as well and its very touchy so it will just be a touch n' go for me for awhile i suppose thank you very much!!
    • Re: how do aries men work?!

      Mon, October 1, 2007 - 7:39 PM
      Ok, so my best friend of 15 years who is also my ex. is an aries and I would agree with all of that... However, my current boyfriend is an aries and he is the most understanding person and thoughtful person! When we do have an arguement he has wanted to hear how it upset me and takes responsibility for his actions of why it upset me. Whenever I am "testie" (aka in a mood when I am upset with him) he wants to talk about it right then while I want to wait before saying anything (because I admit I can take things a little too personal sometimes so want to think if I am overreacting or not) which can upset him but he understands.
      • Re: how do aries men work?!

        Mon, October 1, 2007 - 8:15 PM
        maybe he has other stuff in his chart that makes him more understanding and thoughtful? not that i'm purposely trying to find fault in an aries person but...yeah. :P just curious.
        • Re: how do aries men work?!

          Wed, October 3, 2007 - 10:53 AM
          well here is the update on me and the aries...he is ignoring me and that's fine with me he really didn't care for me and at this moment thats fine...crazy but yeah lol
          • Re: how do aries men work?!

            Thu, October 4, 2007 - 4:29 AM
            Don't take it too badly - they can lose interest quickly because they are more about the chase. Good luck with the next one. Or find yourself a nice Scorpio or Virgo already. I've had good luck with them as a Taurus.
            • Re: how do aries men work?!

              Mon, February 4, 2008 - 8:45 PM
              OK... I am laughing at my post months back about my "aries boyfriend".... Yeah, 2 weeks ago we broke up and have to agree with all of tghe above!!

              Also... Are they normally all selfish (well maybe not totally selfish because they can be very generous BUT very "it is all about me")? Or is this just my taurus/aries experience?
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                Re: how do aries men work?!

                Tue, February 5, 2008 - 9:54 AM
                "Are they normally all selfish"

                • Re: how do aries men work?!

                  Thu, February 7, 2008 - 10:44 PM
                  Hmm.. Good to know! Thanks!
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                    Re: how do aries men work?!

                    Thu, February 21, 2008 - 1:26 AM
                    my most recent ex is an Aries, and I seem to have a magnet streak of attracting male Aries from March 23-29..freaked me out.
                    they have their own way of (not) dealing with their ex-loves.. it is true I suppose that they like 'a chase" until they're caught and
                    stick around until they are fulfilled. me last Aries has his Venus in Aries..'little stinker" ;) mine is in Cancer so that's were it came
                    to a head.. passion and sex was with many Aries men..sigh
  • Re: how do aries men work?!

    Sun, March 27, 2011 - 11:11 AM
    Hi, I can so relate to this. I think this is a relevant post to talk about as the typical aries traits of them pursuing a lady do not apply! I know an aries guy at work and all i can say is that he plays his cards very close to his chest and does not give much a way.

    If i initiate a conversation with him as in general friendly chat he seems bored and uninterested and shows his disinterest without concealing it! So after when i think that i'm going to leave him to his own devices, he turns up unexpectedly and wants to talk to me. He then asks how i am in an attentive way, holding eye contact and smiling and asks about my plans and does that staring thing just when he's about to leave he will hold that gaze for more than a few seconds letting it linger and then will say bye!

    Honestly he does my head in. One minute he's very attentive and seems interested then the next he seems bored! But it makes me laugh that when these guys continue to play games like this then their also being tested. Dont they know we're making our minds up about them too. But then again we all know that they simply do not care what we think..because after its all about them! (typical aries guy behaviour).