Aw man -
People may want to throat punch me after I share this -but honestly all the mumbo jumbo with the signs are ridiculous. I have been burned by many a men in my life and there was no atrological pattern -they were across the board and scorpios who I am supposed to be compatible with hurt me the most! I am a Taurus happily married to a sag and he is the homebody who does all the cooking and I am the antsy one always looking for the next thing on the horizon - all things opposite of our characteristics - right? Bottom line if people are willing to work at a relationship it can work. we are not confined by our astrological signs, we are human beings with our own very unique and distinct personalities and traits. I honestly believe that many of us are told we are a certain way and then in turn identify with it so much we become what others say we are. I say- don't believe the hype and step out and be who you truly are and love who you want to love.

I dont know many Sagittarians, actually.
I did have a 2yr relationship with a sag/cap cusp (Dec.23rd),
and while we were devoted to each other, it never went any
deeper than the 'cute couple' phenomenon, and as such i
ultimately had to leave and try to find something more real....

my birthday is dec 21, im a cusp, i dated this guy hes a taurus, we have good physical connection but, i notice that we dont really have anything to talk about, its wierd, coz

Smokey river,

It makes me happy to see that sag and taurus are a good match. Wow 15 yrs is more than proff!
I've been with my Taurus for 4 years hopefully we'll make it to 15 yrs and more!!!

my good, good friend is a sag. and I've gone and swallowed the hook long ago.
i wish she would hurry up and get the net out!

i am chilled and the romance keeps on...yes it feels good but drives me crazy as well!
-it's interesting to read these posts....maybe friends is best!

Why are Sags always so angry inside?

Bless his little heart, the only Sag sun I've ever known is my infant nephew.

But I've just started a 'thing' with a Sag moon. If it's going to be a disaster, bring it on. I think it's been bad enough Scorpios and Aquariuses, Sag, if it goes bad, really can't top those ones. ;)

But to the original poster...Sags aren't exactly known for having deep, intimate relationships. Think of them as butterflies....or maybe like 5 year old tykes. You know, they play in the yard, no real thought to the future, expect each day to be amazing, and it usually is to them...and they see pretty girls and like to be around them, maybe get a little kiss, but it's not something that dominates their thoughts.

You're a coupler...he's a butterfly. Lives only for the moment, and doesn't give a whit if the future includes you, so long as it's still good.

I think he cares...but he's just not interested in the life of a couple,you know? I know, it's so easy for a stranger to say these things, but i've found outsiders to always have the best advice about relationships, because their minds aren't clouded with memories of fuzzy moments and blurry eyes of love.

That was a very kind thing to say. It's good to keep in mind that other people can be going through some very rough transits when we touch their lives.

2012-Dec-15 00:00 Oph
2012-Dec-16 00:00 Oph
2012-Dec-17 00:00 Oph
2012-Dec-18 00:00 Sgr
2012-Dec-19 00:00 Sgr
2012-Dec-20 00:00 Sgr

i couldn't connect emotionally to the sag i dated either. ton of acquaintances/friends, spreads himself thin, doesn't let anyone get too close. blah blah blah. the 'relationship' or lack there of that we had, was too overwhelming for him. the only reason it lasted as long as it did was because i'm so laid back and let him do whatever. (um... usually the perfect situation for most guys). however in the end, he realized he really liked me, asked me to be his girlfriend, and i guess it was too much of an overwhelming commitment for him, so then he up and ran away.