Hi 

l know you may not be a expert, but l am going through a nightmare with a tauren a the moment and it's pretty awful, l am hoping you can give me some sensible advice on taurus if you know off hand as its driving me crazy, bit long winded but give it your best shot.!
L meet a tauren in Dec 2007 and she declared to me she was into me in a big way, on the day l was leaving on my holiday,kinda freaked me but l felt the vibe pretty much anyway. Well after much deliberation l went back to visit her to see how l felt about the whole thing as it was so intense that l could not stop thinking of her, l am engaged and until that moment felt secure happy and it was the best holiday of my life until she harassed me for six whole weeks with text's messages and phone call of her love and passion to see me. Well all seems fine does it not until l tell you l am also female and have never thought of a woman this way or considered it , but the pull was so strong, anyway went back after a few solid drinks had the experience, and to be honest in the morning l was in a daze it was amazing and so different , for her she said she never had such an experience with any of the women or men she had slept with.
From there on for fourteen days we never left each others side while l stayed at the hotel were she worked, so much so it got a bit to much for me at the end. l had had her breaking down into a bag of tears and telling me not to leave and all sorts of drama , she even got drunk as not to face the pain of seeing me leave for the airport.
after my arrival home my fiance told me she text him to say she missed us and she never had a friend like me and how much she missed me HORROR!  l thought oh God ! thats too intense,! to close to home ,so l returned two months later and she was a bit more cold towards me just before l arrived and it took a bit of warming up to her before we bonded again, but after much heart felt thought , l decided that l was falling in love and it was not the life l wanted or new l could gamble on.
l told her that l wanted to be friends , but she just went all cold and berserk ! on me and said l did not know how to treat her and wanted to know where l was going when l was there who with, and why and when l would get back if l went out shopping etc....
l eventually had enough and stopped her coming to my room and did not answer her call's for the rest of the day.went out with a client to party, and as a result she as totally blanked me still takes my calls but plays the role of someone who as been betrayed , accused me of spreading rumours of our relationship and so on.... 
l have since returned and all of the pretense, to fly out to see her as a friend and phone calls , every night while with my partner, she seemed to forget in a whisk . l have tried to reason with her ,while l  talk with her but all l get is a blank cold look and no emotion , nothing like the intense connection we had . but my fiance was there a few days before me last month and she wanted to know if l was coming there, and she would wake him at one am in the morning asking if l was coming and so on. when l did arrive she just spoke to me once and sat in my room while my other half was there starring at me, with the odd sentence , all this after telling me three weeks prior ,that she hope she would never see me again.CONFUSED!...
the next seven days was followed with a assault of flirting with another girl in front of me , no contact while l was there alone and mixed messages of sit with me then not Talking.
l am so sorry this is so long and l hope the subject does not offend you all, but l have never experienced this before, but she as slept with women casually many times,but the impression l get is that she really fell hard for me, and hates me for making her feel this way, but now she will not let us just be friends although l sense she still likes me , on top of which a guest complained about her behavior in the toilets early this year, by email to the management, but  she just seems to think it's all from me.
What can l do l have tried to build the bridges, she has gaven into me a little and let me in but very slowly with just the odd sign that she still liked me, but said it would take time, to make matters worse , she as a so called boyfriend who is twenty years older and he hated our friendship , as he could see how close we were, so he goes back and tells her anything to wreak the trust she had in me. because he loves her , but he his like a father figure , and she said she would never tell him she likes women, but l have,told him
to top it off he got all his friends involved to help wreak our friendship further by instilling suspicions in her mind about my loyalty to her.
l miss her so much! l want to stop how l feel , but cannot stop my heart! l try daily to focus on my life here,but l am in love l know it! Cancer by birth , l know my self so well.
l feel the begging is just making her dig in harder , and l don't know if she will ever warm to me again,its been 3.5 weeks now and l just made contact but put the phone dow after a couple times in hope she would reply, but with held my number,stupid l know ! do l only get one chance with a tauren,l also made her cry for hours before l left,because l could not stand the thought of her knowing l was so in love and she never gave me much back in return when l disclosed my heart further to her ? did or does she love me , or am l dreaming ,and she played me big time,.

again really sorry , but if you can get as much feed back will keep you posted.....LOL.