Taurus and Scorpio

topic posted Mon, July 16, 2007 - 3:35 PM by  PQR
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So - Supposedly Taurus is supposed to get along well with the direct opposite - Scorpio. Though there can be clashes sometimes. WHat's you're experience been? Personally, I have had a lot of good friends as Scorpios.
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  • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Mon, July 16, 2007 - 3:42 PM
    Oh my god...the utter, utter love of my life is a Scorpio, and I'm a Taurus. Please tell me more.

    John
    • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

      Mon, July 16, 2007 - 3:45 PM
      I don't know much. I just know that the opposite end of the zodiac (count 6 from you) is your complementary sign. It's your direct sign so there can be lots of clashes, but it can also be a very good solid thing. Scorpio is a water sign and Taurus is earth (mud!) so it can be really solid or really slippery.
  • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Mon, July 16, 2007 - 3:46 PM
    I am a Taurus..my love is a scorpio..it can be fiery and volatile..but oh so tender and heart melting.

    It is NEVER boring!
    • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

      Mon, July 16, 2007 - 3:51 PM
      I've had love/lust interests that are scorpio but they didn't stick around. But many of my good solid friendships have been Scorpios.
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        Re: Taurus and Scorpio

        Tue, July 17, 2007 - 12:34 AM
        I have more plutonic energy in my chart than I need. When a Scorp walks into my life, power struggles begin. The pull is strong but I enjoy having my freedom and NOT being emotionally manipulated. It really depends on the other planets too. I dated a girl with pluto in scorp conjunct venus in scorp and I'm sure all in the first house. A firecracker at that but her pluto opposed my venus and oh man did u she love to manipulate and control me. I walked away from that mess quickly because I don't need that. The polarity is magnetic indeed.
        • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

          Tue, July 17, 2007 - 5:43 AM
          LOL! Yeah - it's taken some time for my good friends who a Scorpios to figure out that they can't "fix" me. And I can't "fix" them either.
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            Re: Taurus and Scorpio

            Tue, July 17, 2007 - 7:34 AM
            Once I was in love with one but apart from that I cannot say I like them more or less than any other sign ... sometimes we mirror each other to a t, there is not much excitement there, right? I prefer softer signs: picses, cancers...
            • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

              Tue, July 17, 2007 - 3:39 PM
              ♥sometimes we mirror each other to a t, there is not much excitement there, right? I prefer softer signs: picses, cancers... ♥

              OMG THAT is sooooooo true...thankfully though my man is a Pisces Moon

              lol
  • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Tue, July 17, 2007 - 10:12 AM
    My very first boyfriend (we're talking junior high) is a Scorpio, and the only one that I have ever dated. He is still one of my best friends. I find Scorpio men to be goofy, rather than sexy, for the most part. I don't clash with Scorpios, but I don't really click with them either. I have a lot of Libra and fire in my chart, though. I can think of only two Scorpio girls that have my loyalty and deep, abiding friendship.
    I am talking in stereotypes now: people make a big deal about how sexually-charged Scorpios are, but the real leaders in that arena are Tauruses. Scorpios are much more overt about it, which is what makes them seem so silly to me. Tauruses (at least in my experience) have a tremendous appetite, but a greater appreciation of the subtleties of seduction.
    • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

      Tue, July 17, 2007 - 11:35 AM
      "greater appreciation of the subtleties of seduction"

      WERD! That is so true.


      I HATE it, absolutely HATE it when people are obvious.
      • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

        Fri, November 9, 2007 - 7:42 AM
        "I HATE it, absolutely HATE it when people are obvious."

        double word. there's a difference between acting sexy and being sexy that some people don't understand. [shakes head]

        and i second that scorpio goofy experience. my first (now ex) boyfriend/college sweetheart is a scorpio. goofy wonderful man.
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      Re: Taurus and Scorpio

      Fri, November 9, 2007 - 9:15 AM
      "I am talking in stereotypes now: people make a big deal about how sexually-charged Scorpios are, but the real leaders in that arena are Tauruses. Scorpios are much more overt about it, which is what makes them seem so silly to me. Tauruses (at least in my experience) have a tremendous appetite, but a greater appreciation of the subtleties of seduction."


      totally rings true for me and a scorpio man i've been seeing
  • when taurus and scorpio come together...

    Tue, July 17, 2007 - 11:21 AM
    the first thing that comes to my mind is "it was the best of times, it was the worst of times" I have a lot of plutonian energy in my chart, and scorpios and I seem to go way back, there is a draw there that seems to go beyond just the taurus/scorpio polarity. I always seem to have scorpio suns, scorpio moons and scorpio risers in my life, as well as people with pluto in the first conjunct their ascendants. We are both fixed signs and stubborn doesn't even begin to describe it lol, but we are also both incredibly loyal. Taurus knows how to call scorpio on their bullshit, and in my experience with them, they love that. We also know how to make eachother truly feel loved and cherished. The sense of security that can blossom can be amazing. The downside is that we were born to know how to push each others buttons, and we both know just how to hurt each other to a point where it is terribly hard to recover from. With this combination you get both sides of a coin, so just enter into friendships and relationships knowing that.
    • Re: when taurus and scorpio come together...

      Fri, March 27, 2009 - 1:09 PM
      I totally agree. My chart itself is kind of made up between the polarity of Taurus and Scorpio – and it seems the one knows exactly how to uproot the other. But they can work in great balance as well.
      I get along great with scorpios as friends. Romantically, I'm also instantly drawn to plutonic qualities, but I feel scorpios have a different notion of romance than taureans do and they start getting suspicious if you show you care too much.
      • Re: when taurus and scorpio come together...

        Sat, March 28, 2009 - 9:29 PM
        "Taurus knows how to call scorpio on their bullshit, and in my experience with them, they love that."

        Simon, that is because perhaps you understand them...or help them understand themselves...and Scorpio is hard to know...
        If someone sees through me, it definitely gets my attention because I know how hard that task is.

        Even for me to know myself.

        Having strong Scorp influences (and before I became more self-aware)
        I could get so deep that it was hard for me to keep perspective...

        My brother (Tau) could walk in the door and in within a few minutes of our conversation just put his finger on the issue...
        I love that about him! He keeps things very uncomplicated, light hearted and clear.....just dont try to change his mind or pressue him (:




  • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Tue, July 17, 2007 - 11:39 AM
    A friend who is a scorpio once explained that there are three types of scorpios: the Eagle, the scorpion, and the snake.
    • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

      Tue, July 17, 2007 - 11:53 AM
      this is very, very true. You will find some who display their shadow side more than anything(but you will find this in any sign, we all have our faults)and are very emotionally manipulative, and get off on the empowerment of feeling superior and crushing those beneath them instead of trying to help bring others up. But, and this is what I am drawn to, there are equally as many who have depth and understanding and are just plain above being manipulative, well, for the most part anyway lol
  • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Thu, July 19, 2007 - 7:48 AM
    I LOVE scorpios. Sorry to be a traitor, but it's my favorite sign. My parents, two best friends and closest ex-boyfriend are all scorpios. I have scorpio rising, so that adds to the attraction, I guess.
    There are power stuggles though - no doubt about that.
  • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Sun, July 29, 2007 - 9:21 PM
    I'm a Taurus with a Scorpio moon! I generally get along... Tee hee hee... I definitely feel the Sun pull as Taurus and the Moon as Scorpio...
    • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

      Tue, July 31, 2007 - 3:59 PM
      Hey, me too! I was told I "open" with Libra but am a def Scorpio moon and that sometimes leads me to be open at first and then close up about things later.

      Or am I repeating myself? Did I already say that?

      But yeah - def tugs.
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        Re: Taurus and Scorpio

        Thu, November 1, 2007 - 10:48 AM
        Oh yeah talk a/b sparks! I dated this girl in h. school. Me (Taurus sun and Cancer moon) and she (Scorpio sun and Taurus moon) clicked so well it was scary! We lost contact over the past 4 yrs. (college grad. and moving out of state) but I'm sure we will remain best friends when we meet again. I experienced nothing but understanding and protective Scorpios. I read so many abusurd descriptions of Scorp's like "sadistic" "brutal vengeance" and "cruel persecutors". ANYONE can be that way if u tread on them first. I don't see any of that (haven't) in Scorpios. They want to be loved like anyone else!
        • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

          Thu, November 1, 2007 - 2:05 PM
          Hey! I'm a Taurus sun with Scorpio moon and I've read descriptions about how Taurus suns/Scorpio moons tend to get stressed out and have this need to get away from things a lot and I found that shocking because...I do that quite often. And if I don't get a chance to...I get really really...bad. :P

          Anyway, one day I just became curious about the opposite combination: Scorpio sun/Taurus moon and I read: "A constant struggle for accomplishment often causes problems with tension." Was that true for your ex? LOL I know...totally random, but I had never met a Scorp sun/Taurus moon and I've always wondered about that...because I think that they're a bit worse off than the Taurus suns/Scorp moons. :S
  • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Tue, November 6, 2007 - 11:41 AM
    I was born on May 21st, on the Taurus/Gemini cusp, and I've been with a Scorpio male for 4 years now. We ROCK as a couple. He treats me so good, very devoted to me, and I've got multiple personalities to keep him guessing and stimulated, which Scorpios need, so he has no reason to stray. We are the ULTIMATE couple, according to everyone we've ever met. Don't know if it has to do with the Taurus side, or Gemini side, but whichever, it works!
  • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Tue, November 6, 2007 - 9:59 PM
    There was a guy I knew who had his sun, moon and mercury in Scorpio. He was infamous...everyone knew about him and talked about him so I knew him before I had met him. We had a mutual friend...she actually spoke good things about him which shocked me because it contrasted so much with everything else I had heard from everyone else. But I couldn't really care less at that point because I had never met him and I forced myself to keep an open mind.

    Anyway, one day we saw each other and there was obviously that intensity...and me being a scorpio moon...we ended up having a stare-a-thon. :P

    We actually interacted a year later and it wasn't that great. CONSTANTLY had fights. I HATED him completely.

    But once he saw that I had friends who were willing to back me up...he started showing respect. And...we called a truce. At one point, he had started showing interest in me...but I was interested in his best friend :P (who was in a way, WORSE than the scorpio guy...at least the scorpio guy was openly horrible, this guy hid behind charm)...so I didn't care in the least bit about him...although I was physically attracted to him. If he was a better guy, I would have liked him...but everything he had done in the past to me turned me off.

    Plus...we never really had a good, solid conversation. It was usually bickering. And I *need* intelligent conversation.

    So...meh.

    But I'm not against all scorpios. =D I just didn't like HIM. There are other scorpios I know who are amazing! Sweet, kind, totally loveable (LOL...maybe they had a fluffy sign in their charts that made them teddy-bear-like) and incredibly sexy.
    • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

      Thu, February 7, 2008 - 9:57 AM
      The only times I've fallen for a man instantly were with Scorpios. They were the only ones who could put up with my more extreme moods, and the only ones who understood me implicitly. They were also the ones that let me go without so much as a second thought.

      They're like drugs to me: make you feel so good to be so bad for you.
      • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

        Fri, February 8, 2008 - 5:27 PM
        i've never had a friend or boyfriend with sun in scorpio but my current bf has scorpio rising.. as do i. and we get along great. but we do both have those tempers.
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    Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Fri, February 8, 2008 - 8:38 PM
    Mixed reactions, Scorpio women either love me or hate me. I'm not really drawn to them per se, not more than any other sign. More interesting as people to talk to. I've had the most difficulty with Scorpio/Libra cusps.

    Scorpio men always pretend to be my friend then try to fuck me over. So I try to stay away from Scorpio men.
  • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Sat, February 23, 2008 - 5:08 PM
    holy crap its a friggan roller coaster ride; didn't end well but thats another story.
    • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

      Sat, May 17, 2008 - 8:35 AM
      I am a Virgo with an overwhelming amount of Scorpio, and Virgo in my chart. Mainly scorpio.

      Let me tell you! Taurus for me is like a magnet. Pure magnet. My blood is drawn to them. And they are drawn to me. Usually I find them turning up around my hangouts and asking me out for lunch. I'm guessing there are many similarities here with this combination. Can't get enough. When I'm with one, it's a wonderful friendship mixed with and intense sex-life.
      • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

        Sat, May 17, 2008 - 8:37 AM
        At other times, they frustrate the hel outta me - hand thown up in the air style. Clash of will I guess. But we always find a way back to eachother...
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    Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Fri, August 29, 2008 - 12:18 PM
    my first love happened to be a Scorpio, he was the only person to actually know me, without me having to over explain
    we're still good friends and all, but it's always like a up and down type of thing. like when things are perfect, they're perfect, but when they're bad, they're really bad.
    apparently, the whole opposites attract theory stemmed from the Taurus-Scorpio relationship. he wasn't at all overly sexual, but very funny and humourus. But the intensitiy was definitely there. I will not lie about that. Everything about him was always so full throttle. LOL. But, i've moved on from that. Happily, i'm with an Aquarius, though me and that Scorpio individual do talk on a regular basis.
    I must admit, finding somebody whose loyalty matches my own was something i always wanted, and he just happend to stroll along.
    Personally i don't think they're as bad as ppl say they are, i get along with Scorpio's fairly well.
    • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

      Sat, August 30, 2008 - 8:31 AM
      The sex is the best you'll ever had.

      Everything else is torture.
      • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

        Sun, August 31, 2008 - 9:58 PM
        Yes sex and torture is the best.
        • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

          Wed, September 3, 2008 - 10:39 PM
          I am starting to find many Taurus girls in my area interested in me and persue me. Unfortunatly, I am not really into any of them like that. I thought that it was an opposites attract kind of thing since I am scorpio, But I recently found out in my chart that I have Taurus rising! This probably explains the Virgos that are drawn to me as well.
          I like the basic qualities of Taurus ladies. It is just that the ones I know in my world are women I would much rather have as friends than lovers.
  • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Sat, September 13, 2008 - 8:58 PM
    Oh, no, I am in trouble.
    I have fallen for somebody with four planets AND ascendent in Scorpio.
    Not goofy at all, just ooey goodness. My life will never be the same.
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    Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Sat, September 13, 2008 - 9:17 PM
    I never get along with Scorpio men. Too sadistic and ruthless.

    If I'm attracted to a Scorpio woman, odds are she's going to hate me.

    If I'm not attracted to a Scorpio woman, odds are she's going to love me.

    It's a no-win situation for me. But I'm atypical.
    • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

      Sun, September 14, 2008 - 8:03 PM
      I'm a Scorpio and I lived with a Taurus for many years of my life (my mother), and my current boyfriend is Taurus (I've devoted a whole other thread to trying to figure him and that relationship out).

      So, two important close relationships in my life are with Taurus suns (along with some good friends along the way). You do have to take the whole chart into consideration, but I will say that I've experienced quite the battle of wills with both of these Taurus suns! I argue with both of them like no one else, and no other sun sign! Yet, my mother is my absolute best friend in life, and I love her more than anything, and I love my bf too. I simply argue a lot with both of them and, because of that, the two closest relationships I have in my life right now are also very frustrating. It's actually startling how similar the two of them are, and the issues I have with them. There are also many positives that are similar about them.

      One of the major issues I've argued with both of them about concerns emotions. They don't understand mine, esp. how intense and complicated they are. I don't understand how they can seem so unemotional, which often appears cold and uncaring to me when I am often just wanting them to empathize with how I am feeling about something. It's a constant problem, but one I've had to learn to accept. They may never understand my emotional storms, we just have to try to work together. It works when they try to accept the emotional storms, even if they don't understand their cause or complexity, try to be a little understanding, and then wait for it to blow over and we can try to talk about any issues that may involve them calmly. For my part, I really, really try to reign in these little emotional storms and upsets as much as possible with them because I know it's not conducive if they can't ride the emotional wave with me, and I try to wait until I can calmly discuss. I'm sure they are as frustrated by my emotional excess as I am frustrated by their lack of such. I think the emotional difference between Taurus and Scorpio may be one of the major ones, but not impossible to live with if both people try to work at accepting the other. (I secretly think I may add a little emotional excitement to both of their lives because these two particular Taureans just are no way, no how, nowhere near as intensely emotional as me, and it may add a different dimension to their lives, even if it also adds a little upset.)

      Even if the seeming lack of emotion frustrates me, one of the things I love most about both of them is their strength and stability. I think one of the powerful draws between Taurus and Scorpio is that they supposedly equal each other in their strength. Maybe this has to do with the powerful wills and stubbornness of both signs. I find this to be very true. There are often times I will feel I'm stronger than someone else (even though I certainly don't come as such) on some level, but not with these two. What makes it even better is that I think our types of strength might be different, and complementary, even if equal.

      One thing I will point out that relates to both the emotional and strength issues, is that I feel that I am also more emotionally vulnerable than both of them. Though I do think I am as strong as both of them (in the big picture), I feel like I am much more of a 'softie', much more sensitive, and also more sentimental and affectionate. With both of them, I definitely am more touchy-feely in expressing affection. That's why I so love their strength and stability--my soft side feels like it has someone to lean on (they are both unemotional like rocks, but I can also lean on them like rocks). Though I feel that I am an incredibly strong person that can probably get through just about anything in life, if needed, I love letting down my guard with them and letting the soft, sensitive, vulnerable me come out. In some ways, they are like shelters in a storm for me, even though I know I could very well survive the storm without them if needed. (I'm sure they forget the soft, vulnerable side of me when engaged in full-on battle about something, until the storm clouds clear and that side comes out again). Someone above said they prefer 'softer' water signs of Pisces and Cancer. I see their point a little, but I think that Scorpio in many ways can be even softer than those two signs, or at least equal, but we do have that other more stubborn, intensely emotional side to contend with too.

      Another thing I love about Taurus is that there is a certain sense of seriousness about life, even if it may have a slightly different focus then my own (mine maybe more focused on the emotional and psychological and theirs on finances, practical planning, etc.). I've never been frustrated by any superficial behavior with either of them. I also really love their practicality and pragmatism, though it can also be annoying--the boyfriend doesn't believe in cards or flowers, though he (I think somehow begrudgingly) gave them to me once; he's probably more likely to give vitamins or something practical, if he remembers an important day at all.

      All in all, I think the Scorpio-Taurus match is great, but there will likely be some arguing (I've never fought with Taurus friends, though), clashes of wills and adjustments to each other's extremely different emotional natures. However, I think the goods outweigh the bads (no matter the outcome of my current relationship). The two signs complement each other because they give each other something the other doesn't have (they give me the stability and practicality that can pull me out of a world often consumed by too much intense emotion and psychological analysis, and I give them a taste of a world through that emotional/ psychological lens). The sense of security is also fantastic.

      I've also read that the Taurus can teach the Scorpio that a spade is sometimes just a spade and that the Scorpio can teach the Taurus that there is sometimes more than meets the eye in some situations. This is very true! I think Taurus-Scorpio is a great match!
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        Re: Taurus and Scorpio

        Mon, January 19, 2009 - 9:04 PM
        My Mum is a Taurus and my Dad is a Scorpio. I'm a Scorpio, my boyfriend is a Taurus, and every man I have ever been sexually drawn to, has been a Taurus. I've been with my man two years and it's felt like being on the spin cycle the whole time. But we were both close friends beforehand so our combined loyalty has seen us through. I can honestly say that there were at least 8 times that, if we were sensible, should have called it quits, but right now sitting here, feeling the way I am, I am so glad that we didn't. I have learned so much about myself and about relationships, and I'd like to think he has too. I'd say he has been the more dominant partner in the relationship, and I've known all along its because I have been pathetically needy of his attention, trying all kinds of stupid shit to make him love me more...although I kind of blame my Libra moon for this...his moon being in Pisces, he could just always see through me, see when I wasn't genuine, and his Taurean side was simply not turned on by bells and whistles. I have finally, truly learned what I have been looking to learn all my life - that deep spritual nature of sex is in the giving over of oneself to their desires. Purely acting them out is no different to faking an orgasm. I agree, most Scorpios can be ridiculously flamboyant, and can say that it is like a deep dark hunger to practically embody sexuality itself. It's not until I learnt to switch off my organising and planning mind and just FEEL what I was experiencing, thanks to the advice of my bf, that I truly have discovered where its at.

        His lesson? Hopefully its that if you truly care for someone, you shouldn't do something if you know that it will hurt them deeply, and moreso, you shouldn't make them guilty for being hurt. One thing about you Taureans, you're all about the pleasure, don't care too much about the pain.

        Both our lessons, and where the main points of conflict come from? Trust and misunderstanding. We both express the same things in completely opposite ways. It's taken such a long time to learn sometimes my words won't be heard by him how I intend them to be...now its all about simply acting, not explaining. And him? My suspicious mind always saw his non verbal displays as a sign he must be hiding something from me. Now I realise he doesn't need a partner he can confide in, he just needs a partner strong and independant, but also supportive WHEN CALLED ON!! So no more intrusive annoying 'what are you thinking', 'your hiding something from me' bullshit.

        So, where am I going with all this....ah yes - I think that Taurus and Scorpio both have great world changing capacity, and when these two signs are brought together they literally can grow together, assisting each other in working out their karma and weak points through conflict, and drawing out their strengths through loyalty and unbridled devotion and plenty of 'where I lack, you have in spades'. The attraction comes from recognised life paths I guess - both signs have strong solid desires for a meaningful and purposeful life, and they recognise and respect that in the other. The carnal desires don't hurt either.

        Not for the faint hearted though...good thing these two signs are drawn to the meaning of life and more to meets the eye, otherwise there would be murder involved!! So unless you are ready to be put through the test in order to grow, and so is your Scorpio (or Taurus) counterpart, I'd put it on the backburner. Knowing what you're in for and purposefully signing on for it is a must! Although I have no regrets.
        • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

          Thu, January 22, 2009 - 6:31 PM
          Were to begin, I'm a Taurus that had a 7 year friendship with a Scorpio gal until i finally decided to make the move( And all the time being friends we were strongly attracted to each other) I actually lost my virginity to her and her Libra friend before we went out. She always blamed her friend for coming in between us. (personally i wasn't going to lose my innocence unless marriage or something spectacular like a 3some). we only dated 3 months before she cheated on me, i took her back and that lasted another 3 months until i Went beserk on her for accepting a kitten from a male friend of hers. SEX WAS FUCKIN AMAZING, END OF STORY... Were on a break right now but im still madly in love with her and would take her back in a heartbeat, but she says she wants to try going full blown Lesbian before she gets into another relationship with another guy. The bitch drives me crazy and i know deep down she still loves me, but im gonna give her as much time as she needs. the point im trying to make is that Taurus/Scorpio relationships are so Amazing and yet Tormenting at the same time, you cant Love them without Hating them and vice versa. God i cant wait to Ravage that vag again lol =( .
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            Re: Taurus and Scorpio

            Fri, January 23, 2009 - 2:32 AM
            i wasn't going to lose my innocence unless marriage or something spectacular like a 3some

            ROLF!!!! : )))))))))))))))))
            • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

              Fri, January 23, 2009 - 2:31 PM
              I'm a taurus moon and have had a few girl friends who were scorpio moon,,,and the times were pretty good, tho I'm sure its more than that
              • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

                Mon, January 26, 2009 - 10:15 AM
                If a scorpio still wants your cock does that mean she still has feelings for you or is she just doing what scorpios do best? No complaints just curious.
                • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

                  Mon, January 26, 2009 - 12:16 PM
                  Depends on what your relationship was before.

                  Currently am casually chatting with a scorpio ex bf, and i'm fully aware that he's interested in a sex only relationship.
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                    Re: Taurus and Scorpio

                    Sun, February 8, 2009 - 9:40 AM
                    Well we were friends for 7 years until i wiped up enough courage to court her, lasted 6 months before her paranoia led her to cheat on me. I still love her but im no where near done brooding yet.
      • Re: Taurus and Scorpio (well moon anyway)

        Sat, February 21, 2009 - 7:46 AM
        I've got to say I love your post about this, this is blogging right? Well then it's my first one..

        My small experience with Scorpios have been with an older guy friend and a female friend. Don't know much about the Scorpio part of their makeup or drive, but my girlfriend (Pisces) has a Scorpio moon.

        I'm a Taurus Sun & Moon, so I've got a lot of bull in me. Capricorn rising, doesn't help with the my slow cautious nature.

        Something that me and my girlfriend have experienced.. she is overly emotional, and I'm unemotional, to put it as plain as possible. We have an intense, beautiful, wonderful relationship. But equally difficult time understanding each other now where we are at in our lives. She is 22 and I'm 30. The unemotional, cold nature for me is almost like a much needed self preservation. I've learned (in my current relationship, going on 2 years), to curb that want of drawing in the emotions, because it drives her crazy. Sorry, it's got nothing to do with her, it's my own stuff I've got to deal with, but it was too hard on her. I've only been able to make baby steps though. I still do it, just not to the point of being completely detached at that moment from the relationship.

        I'm not a touchy feely person, never have been, and she is and needs that. It is not that she isn't desirable, I just end up showing how I care in different ways.

        I guess the biggest point for me is that, it's understood the difference and qualities of each person and sign.... It's an intense contrast in the basic construct of each person, but if you want to grow, that kind of relationship is the one that will push some buttons! That being said, just let me do my thing, I'll let you do yours and we'll come together in the middle and enjoy each other. I don't want to be feeling like a horrible person because "needs" aren't being met. Do for yourself what makes you happy, don't depend on me for your happiness. A lesson I am trying to teach her, and during that finally realized I was doing that very thing to her. Why aren't the dishes done? I like it when the kitchen is clean, what else have you done all day?? Well, if I want the kitchen to be clean I now have 2 choices. Either get over it, or do it myself.

        And then there's the Saturn return, I finally understood myself well enough to be okay with the way the world is. This contrast between the signs wouldn't have worked for me until after my Saturn return. I remember when I couldn't understand myself or others well enough to keep me from thinking either I was crazy, or they were. Okay, okay... I mostly thought that they were crazy. But I just couldn't understand where that intense emotion and passion came from. It just "IS" didn't really work for me. That's something that can't really be logically explained. It's like being a teenager trying to figure out the world, your hormones, and deal with your stinkin' family all at the same time. Nothing has made me feel better overall as a person than that time period. My Saturn return... went to India for a month then lost my house and contents in a house fire, lost my job (of 12 years), had started a new relationship, and then became self-employed. It's still unbearable at times mentally, emotionally and sometimes physically (stress), and I don't know how, but I still keep my sanity, for now.
  • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Sun, February 8, 2009 - 9:58 AM
    I have always said that my favorite sign is Scorpio and I am a Sun/Moon/Mercury/North Node in Taurus. So I'm guessing the old standby is true. My best guy friend is a Taurus Sun but he has his Moon in Scorpio. Suffice to say, he clashes with himself, he has an inner battle that flares up because he frequently tries to ignore one side and go with the other.

    His Scoprio Moon is why I love him so much!

    My best "online" friend is a Scorpio and every Scorpio I have met I genuinely like. :D
    • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

      Sun, February 15, 2009 - 11:26 PM
      Oh my god!! Scorpios are like a drug!! It's definitely a love/hate thing going on! My last two boyfriends were Scorpios. One with moon in Cancer and Gemini rising, the other Pisces Moon with Libra rising. The sex the was best I ever had with the one with Moon in Cancer. But the Pisces Moon the sex sucked! I love Scorpios! But I notice that recently I am sick of them. Too much drama and fighting involved, and sometimes physical abuse.

      And it is true, Taurus is far more sexual than Scorpio. I'm a Taurus with also Taurus Venus and Jupiter. We do understand the subtleties and sensuality. I think we have a higher sex drive too... ready to do it at anytime! But that tends to be more common with Venus in Taurus. The worst thing about Scorpios, they will "punish" you by not giving you sex.

      However, with my Libra Moon and Rising, I have noticed that I am more instantly attracted to Aries. But Aries or Scorpio are usually the ones I'm sexually attracted to. I find myself very sexually attracted to Taurus men too! Sometimes more so than to Scorpios or Aries!
  • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Wed, February 18, 2009 - 12:24 PM
    I was recently seeing a Taurus and I must say that it is never ever boring. I definitely agree that it is a love/hate relationship. It's very bi-polar. When you get along, you get along wonderfully. If there's a disagreement, both sides will stand their ground and all hell will break lose. lol.
    • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

      Wed, February 18, 2009 - 3:26 PM
      Both being fixed signs, you better believe both will stand their ground! That's why, IMHO, astrology is so useful, it can point things like this out so people have a chance to understand each other and work on learning to be a little less stubborn/fixed and to give in once in a while for the person you love!

      Love/Hate relationships can be the most exciting of them all, but they are the type that you have to know what you are getting into beforehand otherwise you might be in for a nasty shock when the gloves come off, ahah!
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    Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Sat, February 28, 2009 - 9:43 AM
    Massive amounts of affection, sarcastic fun, jealousy, criticism, more jealousy, more criticism. and I'd likely do it again in spite of my better judgement.
    • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

      Tue, March 3, 2009 - 8:12 AM
      my best friend is a scorpio! i always feel like we have the same mind.. we think and say the same things! ha. we have so much fun together and have so much in common. i can rely on her 100% and i can have deep conversations with her all the time. im also scorpio rising.
  • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Sun, October 18, 2009 - 12:25 AM
    I've been going out with my Scorpio girl for about 6 months. I think that opposite signs help each other, a lot. For example, I'm real bull-headed and straight-forward. She's the complete opposite. I can't even get to her sometimes, I'm so straight-forward. So here, I learn to calm my approaches a little, I guess. And she can learn to be more direct with her thoughts, because sometimes she can't get to me with her indirectness. Anyway, this love can run real deep. To say the truth, it has to be the bomb-ass sex. That and our possessiveness towards the other is really superglue.
    • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

      Sun, October 18, 2009 - 12:31 AM
      Bleh, I feel iffy saying superglue. Being a Taurus (I guess), keeps me from committing just yet. I really love her, but I'm a little slow on that kinda stuff...
  • Re: Taurus and Scorpio

    Sat, October 31, 2009 - 10:50 PM
    there isn't much water in my chart. so any water sign individual is going to represent a foreign element from my p.o.v.
    to my mind a scorpio person is a valuable ally, despite the potential for conflicts. conflicts are growth opportunities in my book. add the fact that i have a bunch of 8th house orbs to work thru in my chart, and you could say a scorpio is the perfect catalyst for bringing all that subterranean energy up to the light of day. it's just a matter of whether i can recognize the service being offered, or if i decide to be egotistical and react in defensive, close-minded manner.
    to the point, my best friend is almost definitely a mercury in scorpio. i've always valued his no b.s., incisive p.o.v.

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